Another year and another Valentine's Day. No pity party - just decided that maybe rather than feel rejected, I needed to spend Valentine's Day showing love to myself. I have not always been kind to myself.
There should be no shame in being single on Valentine's Day. I am tired of people thinking that there is something wrong with me because there is no one in my life. So, I decided to never settle. If it is never to happen for me, then you know there is something greater out there that I have to do on my own.
However, I am no longer going to sit here and allow people to make me feel less than a person because I am not with someone. It has only added to my own personal issues where I feel less than I should. I really dislike the voices left in my head telling me so many negative things.
Life is not perfect, but none of us are perfect in this world. I accept everyone, even those who are toxic to my life, as they are.
So, time to spend learning to love myself and whatever makes me unhappy, if I can change it, I will do that. Otherwise, I will have to change my attitude.
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