Saturday, November 7, 2015

Taking Breaks...

After some serious consideration through the past week, I decided to make a couple of small changes in my life.  One of which is taking a small break from Facebook.  I have been dealing with way too much anger and sadness.  I know I am having to deal with a lot of pain due to my back and knee, but I began thinking about what was really dragging me down for the past year.

I allow other people's drama to affect me.  Some of that drama, I am helpless to do anything because it is just more than one person can manage.  One cannot save all lives, human or otherwise.  Perhaps, one thinks I am simply a very selfish person, but I have more than enough animals for caring.  I have bills to pay.  Hell, after my mom's passing, I have my own life to sort.

I spent so much time worrying on issues with animals and other people's drama.  I lost friends over my own opinions and beliefs.  I thought - what is it all for?  You get in touch with people to make sure that they are okay and doing well.  All you deal with is drama.

For a few people who I made friends, I was very happy for their achievements and the very cool projects they undertook.  When successful, I was ecstatic for them.  I tried to support as I could.  However, somewhere along the line, that all got dragged down into some muddy mess.

Maybe with time, life will get better, but I am going work on myself and discover what makes me happy.  Try hard to shake off all of this pain I feel each day.  Look for the positive and the beautiful whenever possible.  Sit down and understand what it is to be truly grateful.  I should be happy and I have not.  Now, I must change this and move forward, rather than remain stagnant.

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